We note that the 1989 Children Act places a strong emphasis on the local authority working in partnership with parents when acting in accordance with their statutory duties.
We start by considering, by way of example, the scenario of a family which genuinely fears that there is a risk that their child would act on suicidal thoughts were they not to receive gender affirming healthcare. We are told this is a not uncommon situation for families whose teenagers are aware that a denial of puberty blockers means they will never be able to ‘pass’ – and will always be identifiable as trans in a country increasingly hostile to trans people.
A parent acting protectively on behalf of their child by taking measured steps for that child’s well-being may be well able to assert that any questioning or interference by a local authority in their parental decision making is disproportionate and unnecessary.
The UK family courts are not tasked with scrutinising reasonable decisions made by child focused parents.
In the event that a local authority chooses to press ahead with an intervention there are enquiry stages which should be utilised by the local authority in the first instance before there is any prospect of the court becoming involved.
Where a parent holds ‘parental responsibility’ (explained below) their duty is to act in their child’s best interests and exercise considered decision-making for them. It is also for them to decide where their child’s best interests lie – not for an individual local authority or social worker – subject only to boundaries which protect children from significant harm or abuse (and a court is very unlikely to consider that a parent following eg Spanish rather than UK healthcare protocols is abusive).
In considering whether to cooperate with a social services enquiry which, it could be argued, fails to recognise that the best interests assessment is primarily one for loving parents and families, it may help parents to know that the test for the family court is clear – separation of children from their parents via care orders is not sanctioned unless the care of the child is not what it would be reasonable to expect a parent to give.
This is an extremely high threshold and would ordinarily only be crossed where significant harm has or is likely to occur, for example, the child has been subjected to sexual abuse, or physically harmed by way of an inflicted injury, or at is risk of emotional harm due to exposure to domestic abuse within the home or to neglect of their needs through parental substance misuse and unsafe home conditions.
Should a social worker question your decision, you are entitled to say that you do not wish to engage with an enquiry if you consider that to be against the interests of your child, for example where it would introduce unnecessary stress and anxiety into your family, or if you are satisfied that your care is loving, thoughtful and reasonable.
By contrast to the above, parents would usually do well to engage with social workers if intended to address (often a range of) concerns which could be resolved in the short-term with immediately identifiable changes in parenting or by parents taking certain action or seeking external support. In such cases engagement and cooperation with social workers will usually help to speed up the process and draw issues to a conclusion as quickly as possible.
Where the outcome to engagement would take your family no further, then a refusal can be viewed as reasonable and social workers should take stock and consider whether escalation would serve any purpose.
Social work resources are stretched and responses to perceived risks should always be balanced and proportionate.